Time for change

Its that time of year when everyone starts making resolutions and keep them for a short time. .. yeah that's real "good"
As for me, around this time is my birthday and what I like to do is set goals for the time until the next one.
This past year has been really difficult for me and once again I've done some soul searching.  I keep coming up with the things I've discovered in the past - I know what I want and need but I'm not getting it and it is hurting me both emotionally and well... we all know emotional hurt causes physical pain.
Today I will have a talk with my husband and if he won't do what is needed to work on our relationship then we will need to figure out about going our separate ways.  I NEED to do what is necessary to be who and what I want and need to be.
Its time for change